My friend Ryk was hospitalized for an extended time recently, throwing a wrench into plans to celebrate his son’s birthday. In an effort to ease the sting, he asked on social media for people to share birthday greetings. I sent an ecard (graphic above; I hope I’m not violating copyright).
The incident reminded me of a story that goes around on social media from time to time. A teacher invites a sage to visit a class and impart wisdom. The sage writes on the board,
“EVERYONE WANTS TO SAVE THE WORLD, BUT NO ONE WANTS TO HELP MOM DO THE DISHES.”
(attributed to P. J. O’Rourke)
The sage reminds students that they are unlikely ever to rescue a child from a burning building. However, he added, simple acts of kindness can have a profound impact. A smile. Holding the door for the person behind you. Shoveling snow for your neighbor. They change that person’s world.
I had started to pat myself on the back for my little birthday greeting when I realized that, really, Ryk was the one who opened the door here. By inviting his friends to acts of kindness, he had himself committed one.
A great example to set for his children. And for all of us.
Happy birthday, Jase! Thanks, Ryk!