Navigation by Landmark

Some people navigate with precise instructions. “Go north on Central Avenue to 30th Street. Turn left. Go three blocks, and the office will be on your right.”

Other people navigate by landmark. “Take this street up to the stoplight. Turn left. Turn right just past the big maple tree, and the office will be there.”

When I was learning to drive, I was the despair of my precise father. “You can’t drive by landmarks,” he would say. “What will you do when the big maple tree isn’t there any more?”

I was rather smug when, years later, I was able to get around by noticing the daylilies or remembering where the farmer’s silo used to be.

But today I learned the lesson Daddy tried to teach me all those years ago. I was delivering food to a trailer court that doesn’t show up on Google Maps. Megan said, “Go out past the old campground and there’s a barn that they converted into a church, but I don’t know if it’s still a church. Turn right. You’ll see it.”

Signpost indicating the intersection of SR 121 and CR 175S

Just past the old campground the highway curves to the right, and I was past the intersection – didn’t even see the intersection – before I saw the steeple on the converted barn. I figured my turn was up ahead. I drove in circles for 15 minutes until, approaching from the south instead of from the north, I found the right road.

If Megan had said, “Turn right on 175 South,” I would have found it right away.

Somewhere in heaven, my dad is laughing.

A Drop of Oil

I haven’t sewed anything for years, but when we were asked to wear masks in public, I decided to dust off the 1981 Kenmore and try my hand.

Last night after repeated clumps of thread threatened both my masks and my sanity, I started trouble-shooting. I changed needles. I tightened the tension. I hauled out a can of air and sprayed the bobbin case. No luck. Today I made a trip to Walmart and bought sewing machine oil (and groceries, I promise!). One drop of oil later, I am back in business. One drop.

A plastic bottle of sewing oil surrounded by sewing paraphernalia: thread, pins, fabric, elastic, and scissors.

And because my mind moves to metaphor naturally, I started wondering about other situations in which “one drop of oil” might resolve an issue and get things back on track. A good joke. An apology. A well-timed silence. Finding a point to agree on. A quick negotiation.

It won’t be long before we don’t need these masks. They’ll become part of a Coronavirus documentary we’ll watch 10 years from now and say, “Oh, yeah, I remember those!”

But a drop of oil – we always need those. The trick is to figure out how to be one.

Masks

Someday a couple of years from now, someone will open a cardboard box at the back of a hospital storage room and say, “Hey, what are we gonna do with all these masks that we don’t need?” Some of those masks will be mine.

homemade face masks

All research indicates that a cotton mask doesn’t really protect much without a filter. It’s just one notch better than nothing. News varies about the filters that go into the masks. Some say to cut up furnace filters. Others say no, the furnace filters contain bits of glass – you don’t want to breathe that in. A few say to cut up vacuum cleaner filters. Coffee filters. Blue shop rags. All of the articles claim that their recommendations are based on reliable research.

I use fusible interfacing, which scored at least as well as coffee filters in one article and which, as it happens, I have. I also figured out how to build in a pocket so that whoever ends up using the mask can add their own filter. 

Across the US women are making these masks – the media are doing stories about them. It’s like knitting socks for soldiers in WWI or sewing shirts for them in WWII. This time, we’re trying to help the medical teams. Elastic is hard to come by because all of us mask-makers have bought it out. I started making mine with ties.

A sewing machine, a set of instructions for making a mask, and a mask with pleats pinned into place.

I wish I could say my motives are entirely altruistic, but really, I make them mostly to feel useful at a time when I’m being told I’m elderly and should stay home. It gives me something to do besides watch TV and spend too much time on Facebook.

Last night four of us got together at church to serve meals to people, part of an ongoing community program. It was wonderful to spend a couple of hours around people, working, joking, sharing news, making sure everyone is OK. I came home and made another mask, but the task felt stale. I was grateful to realize I had to stop for the night: I’d run out of interfacing. 

But this morning I bought more. I ran into someone I know in the fabric aisle at Walmart. She is getting ready to make masks, too, now that everyone is supposed to be wearing them. It was so nice to have someone to talk to. I indulged myself by offering some tips. 

So I guess this self-quarantine is starting to wear on me. Even we introverts need human contact now and then. 

Woman's face (mine) wearing a floral cotton face mask.